You are listening to these words because you want to be a better housewife. 

You may live in a house of your own, a place you rent, or an apartment
You may work in your home or have full-time work elsewhere
You may be legally married or bound by devotion alone

But you’re a submissive woman who has chosen her role - to serve, to care, to submit - and so you’re in exactly the right place.

Now, you can choose not to focus, to relax, to allow these words to change you if you want to, but you’re here to do exactly that because doing so will help you relax and settle more deeply into the role you’ve chosen, the role you want.

And you’ll start by sitting or lying comfortably with your feet touching the floor. The details - whether your hands are at your side or across your lap - whether your eyes are open or closed - are less important than being comfortable, relaxed, and able to clearly listen to the sound of my voice. 

You may find if you turn your attention to your body that shifting positions will help you be more comfortable. Feel free to do so, knowing that each time you do, you’re choosing to relax because it helps you listen more deeply to what I’m saying. 

And you may find if you turn your attention to the world around you that there are sounds - perhaps cars or other noises that briefly pull your attention away. If you can, you’ll let them pass, your focus settling in even deeper than the noise. And if a noise captures your attention, that’s fine - as you settle your focus back into my voice, you’ll find it captures your attention even deeper than before. 

As you take care of others and yourself, as you picture the person you want to become, some housewives find that tension builds up in their body, so let’s clear that now. For a brief moment, I want you to think of a task, a should, something that will eventually need doing. It might be something that’s been hovering in the background or a task you know must be done soon. Hold it at a distance from you - you’re here to listen, to change, not to do. You can always go back to it later. Check in with your body- check how you feel when you picture that task. 

You may feel nothing about it at all, or you may feel uncertain. You might feel movement, a clenching in muscles along your sides or a twitch in your legs signaling you to action. You may feel your breath pick up with the thought of doing, or the opposite, slowing down as you hope not to stress about this task in your mind.

Whatever you’re feeling, take a deep breath and release it slowly, letting your image of the task fade, and any tension right at the surface dissolve along with it. Let the tension of having to do dissolve away with the feeling of being a good and mindful housewife right here, right now. Let the tension in your muscles dissolve away, knowing that while you listen, you don’t have to move if you don’t want to. Give yourself another deep breath - you’re being a very good girl for listening so closely and relaxing so deeply - you deserve to feel that tension melt away. Excellent. 

Now, feeling rooted firmly to the surface beneath you, know that no matter how relaxed you become, your body will hold you comfortably where you need to be.



Now, have you ever stepped foot in a home that just seemed… whole? Complete? Not ‘perfect,’ like a model home with fake furniture that’s never been used, or clearly designed to match a magazine cover somewhere… but one that feels lived in and loved, yet ordered and clean. The kind of home where you walk in and feel calm. Comfortable. The lights are set warm and bright enough that everything is clear but not harsh. The furniture has been placed and shifted after years of care to be intuitive - exactly where you need it when you need it. It’s practical - with tile and soft spots in the right places for spills and trips - but also pleasurable, with colors and patterns that are beautiful to look at and textures - rich carpet, soft blankets - that feel luxurious to touch.

You house many things: your thoughts, your body, your dreams, your choices. And as a housewife, you can take steps towards making your house more whole, more complete. Not ‘perfect’- like an airbrushed model or a catered social media profile - but one that’s living and loved. One where your thoughts, your body, your dreams, your choices move in the direction that serves you and your husband. Where your thoughts are warm and supportive, but focused enough to show you the right solutions. Where your habits are arranged after years of use and care to serve you. And where you can be both practical - effective at cleaning, tidying, and managing your own house - but also pleasurable - with desires and sensations and habits of play that make your ***, and your play, *** for both you and your husband.  

As you take a moment, feeling the comfortable pressure of your weight settled in the surface beneath you, as you feel warm and relaxed in the knowledge of what you are - what you can be - what you’re coming closer and closer to being with each word you listen to - you may feel relaxation and comfort rising in you, from your feet through your legs, allowing everything to settle deeply and pleasurably as it rises up your chest along your breath to your face, where you can give yourself permission to smile. 

It may be a slight smile, a subtle expression of the joy of knowing you’re changing into a better housewife the way you see fit. You might allow it to spread into a true, beaming grin, filled with joy at how you feel and all the possibilities. And a smile is where it starts. Not just relaxation but joy spreading out from your smile along your neck and down your breasts, your back, along your sides, through your legs and to the tips of your toes, a warm, bright light of joy spreading through you. Because no matter how your house feels or looks to you right now, as long as you tend to it - as long as you keep the core of who you are - you can be - and are - a fantastic housewife who can only get better. And that’s never not something you can smile about, isn’t it? Whether it’s quiet, resting deep inside you or beaming through your face, you smile from a place of joy.  

And from your service. As a housewife, you’ve chosen a life of service. Your choice is a service to yourself, to freely commit to the life you want to live - that you feel is best for you and your family. But you know it goes beyond you. It brings you joy knowing that as you prepare your own house, you’ll use that to serve others. That your light, your joy, shines out beyond yourself, reaching out beyond you to brighten your home and the lives you serve. Knowing that one woman in her role - the role she’s chosen and committed to - can do far more in service to her family than she can alone. That you’ve chosen and committed to a service that makes you so much greater than yourself. That your service brings light and joy and enriches your husband, your family, and your community, and that in turn they can support and enrich you. You serve from a place of richness.

And rich means so many things, doesn’t it? We think of ‘riches’ or wealth, but how sensuously rich is a delicious cake prepared with care? The feeling of a clean, cool floor under your feet. Or the rush of arousal and excitement from your husband’s touch, and how you touch him? It feels luxurious to please, to touch, to taste, doesn’t it? The relaxation, the joy, and the sensual erotic pleasure rising from your legs and your calves along your hips, your ***, your breasts and nipples, through to your lips and cheeks as they start ever so slightly to flush with desire. And it feels good to receive, doesn’t it? To yield. To make yourself open to be touched and played with. To spread your legs and your heart for your husband. You serve your husband, you’re a housewife, and you know the joy that comes from serving in all ways. You might find that your breath has picked up thinking about it, your skin responding, muscles starting to pleasurably tense in anticipation of his touch. Of being held and filled. Your arousal rising as you imagine that touch, as you picture yourself dropping to your knees at his command. How rich it feels to taste, to be filled. How erotic it feels to be a wet and useful set of holes. You spread for pleasure - yours and his. 

And there’s a blurry line, isn’t there, housewife, between the joy you get from service, from sexual service, from submission, not just when you spread your legs for pleasure, but from surrender. Submitting to your role - the role you’ve chosen - the role that brings joy - the choice to serve - submitting to your husband. Knowing that it’s okay to let go, to know that your role is so critical, but your husband is in charge. Leads you. Directs you. To find your joy, your purpose, your pleasure, in letting go and allowing your husband, your dominant, to lead. You might still have lingering feelings of arousal, or maybe new ones as you picture your submission. Perhaps you feel your submission as a collar around your neck, a ring around your finger, a firm hand around your waist, or a kiss on your forehead, but knowing that this is what you want - that you submit from a place of being made whole and complete.

And you’re whole, and complete, you already are, even as you better your house with

Joy. Purpose. Pleasure. Place. 

Smile. Serve. Spread. Subm-it feels so good feeling those words wash over you, doesn’t it?

Joy. Purpose. Pleasurable feelings knowing yourself, your role, your place. 

Smile. Serve. Spreading through you, these wonderful feelings of 

Joy. Purpose. Pleasure. Place. 
Smile. Serve. Spread. Submit. 

Joy. Purpose. Pleasure. Placing everything you are in service of the role you’ve chosen…

Smiling at the satisfaction, the arousal, the chance to 

Serve. Spread. Submission brings you a 

Joy that you struggle to describe and a

Purpose. Pleasure. Place. 
Smile. Serve. Spread. Submit. 
Joy. Purpose.

Pleasure, allowing everything you’re feeling, and knowing, to settle into you right now. 

Place. Smile. Serving yourself, and bringing yourself to serve others. 

Spreading your legs, your holes, open for your husband to touch, to use, to fill. Submit 

Joy. Purpose. Pleasure. Place. 
Smile. Serve. Spread. Submit. 

Joy. Purpose. Pleasure. Place. 
Smile. Serve. Spread. Submit. 

Good. You’ve been a very good housewife, sitting here and letting these words work through you. Knowing how you’ll change, how you’ll become even better at what - and who - you are. And it brings you pleasure to know that this is just the start - there’s so much more to become. 

Until then, let these words continue to settle in. 

As you listened, you may have thought of new ways to be better, new things to do, and if you did, I celebrate your desire to act on this and become a better housewife. Feel free to hold that idea at a distance at first - to look at it through the eyes of the housewife you’re becoming and see whether it serves you and serves your husband. 

Know that you can act on that thought when you need to from a place of joy, richness, pleasure, and submission. 

And whether you came away with new ideas or just the feeling of relaxation and joy of becoming a better housewife… good. You’re being a good girl and doing exactly what you should be doing. 

As my voice fades away, allow yourself to relax, to smile, to settle into these thoughts for as long as feels right for you, reveling in just what a good girl you’ve been. And when you’re ready, feeling great, you’ll know what you need to do next in your life of joyful service…