30 year old woman here. I have a sister who’s just a year older than me. We’ve ALWAYS had such a good relationship so finding out about this one HURT. She might as well have just stabbed me in my heart. On top of that, I’ve been with my fiancé since high school and we’ve always been with each other through thick and thin. We were going to get married in a few months.

I have no idea why on earth they did this to me. What’s even worse was that our mom knew and out of fear of getting involved (my sister apparently BEGGED her not to say a word), she didn’t tell me anything. Thankfully, my dad wasn’t having it and he spilled the beans to me. I’ve never been so angry in my life. Not only did I kick my fiancé out and throw out his stuff (some of it in the trash) but I decided to hurt my sister in another way. Why not do the same for my fiancé? Simple, she’s my sister. We’ve always had a good relationship until she decided to ruin it MONTHS before my big day (which I allowed her to be a bridesmaid in). You don’t do that to anyone let alone your sister. Your blood.

My sister’s big on gardening so when she lost her dog, she made a garden for him. I knocked on her door (she didn’t know that I knew) and of course I played nice. I moved onto what she did with my fiancé and I slightly damaged her garden (I honestly just crushed a couple flowers). Am I sorry? No. Her excuse sent me over the edge. “It just happened” isn’t a reason. Sleeping with my fiancé JUST happened like that, I guess. I told her I didn’t want her speaking to me anymore and that I also didn’t want our mom to speak to me. My fiancé won’t say a word since I threatened to call the police if he ever went near me again. Yea, I made my sister cry and scream at me but I genuinely feel like I should be the one crying. She knew how important getting married was to me and now I can’t experience that. Pair that with the fact that I had to hear this from my DAD, not my bum excuse of a sister or fiancé. Hell, even my own mother didn’t say a word to me. It’s like she lets my sister run her.

Fuck you, Tia. Fuck you, Logan. If they ever see this, I’d be absolutely delighted.

Edit: since many people keep bringing this up, I’m upset that I lost the relationship I’ve always put 100% into. I was excited to get married of course but then this news came out. It really hurt me. I didn’t want to believe it at first. I almost thought my dad was pulling my leg. Later turned out to be true. I swear I have trust issues now.

Edit #2: thanks again for all the suggestions, y’all. It’s helping me feel more confident in exposing them (I’m just a bundle of nerves right now because I know shit’s gonna hit the fan again). When I do so, I’ll try my best to come with an update. I mean, it’s the least y’all deserve haha.

Last edit: when I say I decided to hurt her, it’s because I kinda ruined something so meaningful to her. I feel like for most people (besides on here), that would be a bit far. That’s just how I feel though, I understand it’s not what you guys wanted lol. Clearly worked a bit though since she thought I was so damn psychotic for that. Like I said, I don’t feel sorry about hurting her that way.